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Working With Resonance

By: Kenrick Cleveland..

Recently I heard an interesting story about the law of resonance. This law is similar to the law of attraction -- the universal law of like attracting like -- but not exactly the same. While attraction brings into your life what you're putting out, resonance is slightly different.

Where the Law of Attraction is really a personal, individualized situation, the Law of Resonance is relational in nature. The Law of Resonance has to do with the way two or more things are linked. My transcriptionist told me a story that perfectly illustrates this law. She had worked as a paralegal in a law firm several years ago and saw exactly how the Law of Resonance works first hand.

She told me, "I sat next to a woman who had been working at the firm for more than ten years, working for the same attorney who treated her horribly. She was so beaten down and negative and everything out of her mouth was either a lie or something really depressing. And the worst part was she never stopped talking, even if there was no one listening.

"My first instinct was to be sweet and supportive with her. I was friendly and engaging, but as the weeks, months, years wore on, my sympathy and support turned into negativity and frustration. I would call her out all the time when I caught her lying. I stopped suggesting things to move her out of her mindset, and started unconsciously moving into negativity myself."

So think about this. . . you sit next to someone eight or nine hours a day (or live with someone or have some other constant, close relationship with someone) whose energy is dark and pessimistic. Now say you're a relatively happy person and you express yourself positively and, if and when there's a problem, you find a way to constructively deal with it. This really puts you in a tight spot. You can't kick out your mother-in-law, and if you really like your job, but have issues with just one person you work with and are not in charge of hiring and firing, then how can we protect ourselves and our energy from being sapped by a vortex of negativity?

The Law of Resonance says that the relationship between the two individuals, especially over an extended period of time, will either raise up the energy of the negative one, lower the energy of the positive one, or result in a combination of both where they'll meet somewhere in the middle.

There are a number of things you can do to protect yourself from sinking to their level.

This is not always possible, but the first step is to surround yourself with positive people. However, we're not always able to choose everyone who we spend time with. The key is that to remain mindful of the energy of the people around us. If their negativity overwhelms our positivity, we can get pulled down.

So what happened between my transcriptionist and the secretary she sat next to? Well, eventually my transcriptionist, manifested herself a new desk on the other side of the office. She went to her office manager and explained the drain and was rewarded with a quiet desk alone near the library and felt a huge weight was removed from her workload.

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Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to earn the business of affluent clients using persuasion. He runs public and private seminars and offers home study courses and coaching programs in persuasion techniques.

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